Maybe deep down we do know what we need to do. But we choose to ignore them cause we’re afraid we might lose that something. We ignore to confront out fears, emotions, thoughts and feelings about everything and everyone which ultimately leads to all our conflicts. We blame everyone but ourselves, whereas the reality is quite literally the opposite. We should learn to face our own demons. We’ll then know exactly what to do. Confrontation is a powerful tool in the process of self-awareness and development and a happy life, which none of us seem to realise.
People create their own demons. Even the Satan from the Bible, the Devil himself, is overrated. People perceive the Devil as someone who makes them do bad things and cause bad things to happen to them. When in reality the devil has only so much power as we give him. In truth, the Devil isn’t actually a bad guy. He doesn’t make us do anything. We make our choices and those choices have consequences. The Devil is actually the one who punishes evil. He is powered by our own regrets and guilt of our doings.
In reality, when we start to face our demons, our own fears can actually turn out to be our strongest allies in the journey of life. They can push us to do things that we’ve always wanted to do but never could find the courage, the energy, the spirit, the focus, the confidence or whatever to do it. They could actually force us to fulfil our wishes. They could help us break our excuses and come out of our comfort zone. And when you do that, you become more confident than ever and could do anything and everything. There wouldn’t be much to regret then. Face your fears. Express your thoughts and feelings. Be it anger, rage, love, hate, frustration, grief, joy, disgust, trust, anxiety, shame, envy, come to terms with your emotions. Use them to fuel your spirit. Put them to good use. NEVER even think about others, 99% of the people are stupid and hypocrites. They know shit about their own life and they’ll come judging others. That’s just human nature. Break out of that bubble. Surround yourselves with the right people. Find your true friends. Find reality. Find purpose. Analyse yourselves. Find yourselves. Be yourselves. One day it might all be over, just like that. Realise the value of time. Make memories. Experience. Live. With the right people of course. Move away from the ones who weigh you down, ones who impose negativity in your life, ones who suck out your true potential, ones who kill your spirit.
Make the right choices, which suits you at the given time. Our needs are constantly changing, strictly circumstantial. Prioritize accordingly. The things that we needed once upon a time would become less of a priority in a different time. Learn to understand the difference. Stop lying to yourselves. Accept your fears, your feelings, your emotions that are deep down. Listen to your voice that’s coming from deep down. Because deep down, is always what’s best for you. Deep down is what that matters. Learn to accept the truth, however bitter it appears. Because it’s just that, the truth. It only “appears” bitter, at that time. It’s relative. As time goes on, you’ll realise the impact and greatness you’ve acquired because of that truth. And at the end of they day, you’d only be laughing at your reason why you were worried about learning the truth.
No matter what, let go of idiots, and no matter what always hold on to your loved ones. There aren’t always signs when someone is in trouble and needs help. Most of all, learn to be patient and you’ll reach heights like no other. Letting go doesn’t mean ignore and avoid someone completely and holding on doesn’t mean staying glued to someone day and night. Know the difference. Learn to know the difference between hypocrisy and healthy criticism, the difference between permanent real people and temporary fake people, the difference between what you want and what you need and what you really deserve.
Reveal your true selves not to others, but you. Find yourselves. It’s never too late. There’s always a bigger picture. Never get caught in a moment or experience. Always move forward.
Be Emotionally Intelligent. THE most powerful entity in terms of being strong, both mentally and physically. Once we learn to harness it, there’s no other high that can be compared with.
Confront your inner demons. Fear something, face it. You might even love that something once you’ve tried it. Like something, compliment. Miss someone, call them. It’s never too late. Love, don’t hate. Hug often. Laugh with someone you actually care about. Help each other. Got an idea for a project, start working on it right away. No better day to start than today. Stop wishing for things to happen and make them happen. Stop expecting people to understand and start expressing how you feel. Got a feeling to do something, do it. Cause trust me, letting things off the heart, is quite liberating. Listen to your gut. Welcome conflicts and don’t run away from them. Accept the fact that they are a part of our life. Make your choices and accept them, no matter the outcome. Own them. Keep trying new things. Find your flow. Listen not to your heart, not to your mind, but your soul! Of course its gonna be hard, but trust me, once you’re outside that bubble, the rush you’d feel, the confidence, the energy, it’s insurmountable.
Start anew and live majestically.
Have the heart of a child that would treat everyone with the same love and the mind of an old man who’d know the difference between good and bad.
Reset, Restart, Readjust, Refocus, how many ever times it takes!
As Winston Churchill says,
Now this is not the end. It is not even the beginning of the end. But it is, perhaps, the end of the beginning.
Think about it!
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This one is so real. It makes me think twice about myself as I read it. Good way that you have built the the idea.
Excellent bro…!!!!